Q: Dear Crucial Skills,

One of my coworkers has refused to communicate with me in any way for more than a year, but I don't know what I did to offend her. I spoke to the office manager and my immediate supervisor regarding the situation, but they told me I should not confront her. Now it is very difficult to go to work each day because several of my coworkers ignore me and exclude me from meetings, lunch invitations, and more. What should I do?

Ignored

A: Dear Ignored,

Iced out. The silent treatment. The cold shoulder. Brrrrrrrrrrrr.